Monday, April 21, 2014

What do the Grooms THINK on the Other Side of the Isle?!

Well, wedding can be so much for the bride, the fact that she has a lot of planning, invitations to be sent out! She has to find her dream dress, "The DRESS", a beautiful venue that she has to create to her own liking! Has to choose this and that, then the wedding jitters that she has to go through on her wedding day! Hoping nothing goes wrong, hoping that her dress would still fit(even though she made sure it did how many times before), hoping she is on time, her makeup is perfect, HOPING EVERYTHING IS PERFECT!...However, what we as maybe guests, even myself at wedding sometimes forget about is the GROOM who is on the other side of the isle. 

We are often too focused on the bride herself with her wonder gown walking down the isle, maybe trying not to trip and make a whole scene in front of everyone on her big day that we totally forget about the groom until well maybe the couple gets to saying their vows to each other. Well at least that's what I do at weddings, so focused on the bride and everything about her I do not even consider the groom and what could be going through his mind as he is about to marry the love of his life!

Here are a couple of answers of grooms who were asked : "What did you think when you first saw your bride?"

"Holy shit, this is happening for real, man." " Good God she's beautiful, how did I wind up getting this lucky?" " Wait is her dad crying? I hope those are tears of joy... Oh God, does he secretly hate me? Does he think we are making a mistake? Please don't let him say anything during the ceremony..." " Ok, now she's here, hold her hand, don't get sweaty...dammit, pals stop sweating!"

- FerdThePenguinGuy

"It's mostly a haze for the first few minutes, but I distinctly remember thinking that I'm smiling like an idiot and I'm suppose to say something to her parents but all I can think of is how beautiful she looks."

- WTFOutOfUsernames

Nothing, not one single damn thing, could have ruined that moment for me. My first thought? "This is really happening, and it's perfect"

- Noexit

"How did I fool her into marrying me?" Followed by : "Alright, walk a little quicker now. I want to get this over  with".

-lolmonade

 Reading all these answers and a whole lot more really shows me that we as "spectators" at weddings really overlook certain things especially the groom, the one that the beautiful bride is going to marry! I know me being me, have not given much thought to what a groom would be thinking on his big day as well. Goes to show that men also have wedding jitters and think about a whole bunch of things too! 



SOURCE :

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/weddings/
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